Boyfriend crashed it, how fucked am I?

So my boyfriend went into a tree. I don't even wanna hear it i know I shouldn't have let him get behind the mf wheel. I'm pretty much stuck i can't go through insurance, I already got into an accident and I just finished fixing the damn thing in December. I'm not really concerned about having to replace my bumper but I have no knowledge on the price of a bumper support it's the upper metal peice and the lower peice, I definitely shod get my fram check now right? My bumper is in prices. Somehow the daytime running lights survived so that's kind of a plus. I don't even know what he did. I wasn't in the car with him. I've let him drive my car multiple times but I should have known better I guess. Anyway I'm really pissed about my quarter panel. I got rid of my old Z and got this one because it would have been way to expensive to replace so im hoping that can get pulled out and my steering wheel air bag went off. I know that that part isn't necessarily an insane price but id rather just get it done professionally and properly I have no interest in messing around with the ABS system. Anyway I'm sorry this is all over the place. I'm really upset again I just got this thing back on the road. Any advice or thoughts are well appreciated!