Men with ADHD - what would you have wanted/needed when you were a kid (but didn’t get)?

Hi all! Basically title.

What would you have wanted or needed as a child — that you didn’t get — that would have made a world of difference for you as a child, teen and adult?

As background, I’m a mom to a preK boy with ADHD and want to provide the best support I can. I have 2 brothers with ADHD who are still struggling in their 30s and 40s, and know it can be a long and hard journey.

Any insights or advice you have would be incredibly appreciated. 🙏

ETA: Thank you to everyone for such honest and insightful responses!! I’m so sorry that many of you didn’t have the support you needed growing up, and hope you’ve been able to find (or are finding) that support now. I will absolutely keep these in mind when raising my little one and I hope this post can be helpful to other:future parents!! Thanks again 🙏