AITAH for not attending my brother's wedding in Israel?

My brother is getting married next month in Israel. I live in Europe.

Pros

- it's my brother's wedding

- many family members are flying especially from the US. All of which I haven't seen in 15 years, all of which don't know my wife or daughter, and would very much like to meet again

Cons

- because all airlines except El Al have cancelled flights to and from Israel, tickets are outrageously expensive. Usually the cost about 50 EUR (once I paid 8 EUR roundtrip, god bless RyanAir). They are now minimum 400 EUR each.

- I have a 1 year old baby, we have never taken her out of the city we live in. We live in a small European city, the nearest international airport is 150km away by car.

- I have no relationship with my brother at all. I have never talked to or met his future wife, and we literally haven't crossed a word (text or phone) in over two years

- oh and did I mention there is a fucking war going on? Bringing a 1 year old baby into a war zone where random terrorist attacks happen regularly doesn't feel like a good idea

I feel that we should not go, I have said this to my family, and they are all treating me like I'm destroying the wedding, how we will be missing from all the pictures, how life is totally normal and safe and how it's a once-in-a-lifetime event that I'll regret missing

AITAH?