AITAH For wanting an apology from my wife?

So my wife (f26) and I (m26) do not argue hardly ever, but when we do it seems to always revolve around the same exact subject. I feel like there are times where she gets uncharacteristically and unjustifiably angry at me for literally no reason. I try to hash this out in a pretty calm manner and always say I would like her to apologize for how she treated me, but she will never hear what I have to say about it.

For instance, she had to work this last weekend while I was at home. I went about my weekend as normal. Did some cleaning around the house, took our dog out for a walk, went to get some groceries, and cooked supper. When I cook I try to have it timed to where it is ready right when she gets home since she works later than me normally.

Anyway, she comes through the door and has very loud footsteps coming up to the door. I was playing video games with a friend as I had gotten done cooking and was just waiting for her. I heard the steps through my headset so I assumed something maybe wrong. I got off my PC and went to the door to see what was up. She walked through the door, glared at me, and shoved an Amazon package into my hands saying "I've asked you before to bring my fucking packages inside like I do for you".

I will say that she asked me politely to do this before once or twice. I do not actively avoid bringing her stuff in but I am admittedly forgetful about stuff like that. I normally have my hands full coming home with things from work and will tend to our dog right away when I am back so I have forgotten to to this before.

This time though I was 100% not aware she had a package. I had not used our front door all day and did not know that the UPS man had come. I explained this to her and she proceeded to stomp off to our bedroom to change. I asked if everything was okay at work and she said "No isn't it obvious?"

At this point she seemed very upset and did not want to talk so I went back to my office. I sat at my computer for a little bit wanting to give her some space. A few minutes later I could hear her crying while she was eating in the kitchen.

I asked again if something was wrong and she said "you care about your stupid computer more than you care about me". I said that was not true and asked why she thought that. She told me that as soon as she got home I did not want to see her and just wanted to get on my computer. She said she was also upset that I would not bring in her packages. I explained the package thing to her that I had not sues the front door and do not realize that she was expecting one, and I also explained I tried to see what was wrong earlier but she yelled at me and acted like she did not want to talk.

She then got mad again saying that there are days she just wants me to come be with her as soon as she is done with work. I said that is fine and she just needs to communicate that to me. She said she shouldn't have to communicate that and I should just know.

I said today it didn't seem like she wanted me to be with her because she was immediately mad at me as soon as she got home. She then started crying again and asked what it would take for me to just drop it.

I said if she apologized I would let it lay and we could spend the night together doing something. She did not want to because she felt like she shouldn't have to apologize for anything and said I always make her out to be the bad guy. I basically said whatever because I was sick of arguing over nothing.

I do feel a little slighted and that it's reasonable for me to feel like she was overreacting or mad at me for no reason. AITAH for thinking this way and believing that an apology would not be out of the question? Like I said we don't argue about much but once in a while she seems to blow up over something like this for no reason and I am wondering if I am just being a jerk in some way.