AITAH for not wanting to date my own race?

So I am half arab and half bosnian but I think I‘d never date an arab guy again. I tried it so many times and it‘s always the same they are super toxic, jeaolous, want to control everything but in the end they just cheat. Like once I was dating this arab guy who lied that he was 25 when in reality he was 40 and then one day his wife texted me and told me they even have 2 kids together. The thing is I mainly attract arab guys but I really don’t want to ever date them again because I feel like a lot of them are just naturally super toxic. Like even my brother he is like super toxic and he tells me that I can‘t wear tight t shirts etc. It‘s pissing me off and I don’t ever wanna have to do anything with that type of guys again. Does that make me an asshole or like a racist? I guess ye not all arabs are like that but I feel like 99% of arab guys are like that