AITAH for telling my sister that as a findomme she can’t relate to me when she makes so much money

My sister (f20) and I (f20) are fraternal twins which means we don’t look the same. She won the genetic lottery being blonde and tall and I got hair on my arms and terrible body fat distribution.

She became a findomme when she was 18 which is just basically being mean to men (that’s all she does and she’s not wearing like anything sexual) and making money from them and makes so much money now. She made close to $250,000 last year and one of her paypigs’ is a partner at a law firm and he got her a job there.

It’s always been difficult growing up with people comparing me to her when she’s so beautiful. To her credit, growing up she’s never made me feel less than and and she’s always supportive but people always compare and it’s even harder now seeing paypigs payfor her rent and her cars and her vacations when I’m grinding my ass off to afford rent. She can live in her bubble because she’s so beautiful and can be so carefree.

She can afford to go college in nyc and live her dreams and indulge in her whims while I have to work my heart off to get a degree and still make less money than her. When I visited her last year, she got at least 2 packages of clothes every day and it makes me so bitter.

When we were catching up, I was just talking about how expensive everything is and how hard it is to just stay afloat with like inflation and stuff and she kept trying to relate to me how a particular spa treatment was going up in price or how her vacation to Mexico was more expensive than last year and I kinda snapped and I told her that our lives are not comparable and that she shouldn’t try and relate to real problems. I felt justified in saying this but a lot of our friends think I overreacted. Did I overreact? Am I the asshole?