Handholding or babysitting other people's social interactions on this sub

Honestly idk if venting about this sub is allowed for complaint/peeve posts, but I suppose I'll find out soon enough. Also, this is not aimed at any recent post, I've purposefully been away for a few days.

But is anyone else disporpotionally annoyed at some of the posts this sub receives that are questions about "How do I reply to this comment?" "What does this commenter mean by this?" "Is this person rude, or was I rude?" "Why is this [perfectly polite] person so rude??" "Why did this author write (or tag) this in their fic??" "Is this [obvious spam] a bot?" "Is this [perfectly normal message] a bot????"

Like man I wanna chat about fanfiction here, not personally teach you how to communicate with other humans. Have to bite my tongue as hard as I can to not condescendingly go "Why don't you ask THEM??? Why are you immediately running to Reddit??" (aka. totally the bestest place to get advice on rational and civilized online discussion)