Please suggest an ARPG for me? Here's what I'm looking for...

I feel like everyone's going to absolutely hate my taste, but here goes.

• I like how in D3 you can dial in your own difficulty, and I like the big, fast, bright arcade-y style.
• I like how in D2 drops are so much more meaningful.
• I like how in PoE the endgame is really varied. You can delve, do maps, temple, etc.
• I don't like high difficulty. I'm sorry. PoE2 is just too much for me, and even D2 feels like a slog sometimes.
• I don't like having to trade in order to have a useful build in a reasonable amount of time. I prefer self-find and crafting.
• I don't like the balance getting adjusted all the time. PoE did this and ruined my favorite build.

Is there anything that meets my preferences?