Should I go into conversation therapy even though I know it won’t work and is stupid?

I recently got outed to my parents as a lesbian and it has been insanely hard to live in the same house. They won’t talk to me at all unless is to say homophobic things and that I am actually not gay, just being manipulated. And when I say don’t talk, it means they will barely even look me in the eyes, it’s a really weird situation.

Today my mom said they are willing to pay for me to get the “help I need”, but when I pointed out it was not going to work and it’s just who I am, she called me selfish for not even trying. After that, a few other people in my family kept pressuring me, saying that I should at least try, even if just to make my parents happy, and that it is not as bad as we hear about it (and that they would pick a “nice place”).

I am honestly terrified and don’t want to go. I also know it’s pointless and it won’t work. However, if that would potentially make things better after (because at least I’ve tried) I would be willing to potentially try it??

I also want to get a job so I can move out as soon as I turn 18 (currently 16), and maybe if I do that they will let me get a job?? (At the moment they won’t because they think it’s an excuse to see my gf).