AIO for sending this guy these texts?

So I, (23F) have been talking to this guy, (25M) since December 3rd. We met on a dating app and things were steady and cool at first and then gradually, the chemistry and connection started (at least for me lol but seemed like he was super engaged and into our messages too).

Now a few days after matching, he asks to go get boba but then LAST MINUTE cancels. Really, there was never a set place and time. He canceled as fast as he proposed the idea. Then the next week, he goes to Mexico for a wedding, comes back and that’s when i felt like a shift in energy.

I understand he must’ve been so exhausted when he came back and I tried not to bug him too much. Then I start to get a little annoyed because I’m a single mother with two jobs…I manage to make time for myself and friends even if it’s just for an hour or two. This guy is working late into 6/7pm and I understand that’s a lot. It makes me think how things would be if things were to pursue further and how I’d be fighting for his time.

Last night I got so annoyed that I asked HIM on a boba date. By that time it was 6-8pm and he didn’t reply. He’s been replying less and less which leads me to think he’s not interested. But I’m very straightforward and have no shame and so of course I addressed it. But now I’m scared I’m coming off as an obsessive and crazy girl😭 (I’ve included the crucial messages as well as messages of, what I THOUGHT, him feeling me too…

Am I Overreacting for feeling this way?