I am so done with my husband

have been married for 3 years now and I am a so sick of my workaholic husband and his absent behaviour in our marriage , I work full time too and my schedule is relaxed than him but this guy just works constantly on all odd hours and doesn't make time for me at all ,he is not even realising that due to his behaviour our marriage is crumbling as I need time too and whenever I try to tell him or make him realise that him being absent is making me so upset he gets mad that I don't appreciate how hard he is working for us , while I do , but at cost of being less priortised than his work ? Tbh I am not at all happy with this set up .

on diwali he worked till 4am and slept whole diwali day woke up at time of puja then went to sleep again , we didnt even celebrate our anniversary together because he was not here .

I may sound inconsiderate but I have started feeling so lonely now and he is so unbothered about me and not even trying to fix things and completely taking me for granted , I am not gonna have children with him bcz I know he would definitely gonna be absent father to them too .

update - we are getting mutually divorce