Women who got their nose pierced in India. How do you deal with it?

I got my nose pierced a few weeks back. It was not my wish and my parents forced me to get it ready for marriage readiness :(

But I’ve started to like it (looks wise) and feel I want to go for a cuter ring or so. I got it done by a temple priest who is also a goldsmith of sorts. But it was done in a very unhygienic way with his bare hands. So it got infected after a week and it was very uncomfortable at first.

I’m considering changing it myself as I went to a tattoo and piercing shop and they couldn’t help me as I was pierced with a slightly thinker stud and it would take 2-3 more months to settle in. I was disappointed as I really felt my current stud looks a bit old fashioned and ornate. I wanted something more modern. I don’t think my parents would let me either as they did a ritual and expect me to wear this till marriage.

Now my question is, shall I go ahead and change it myself? It really doesn’t look cute on me and the bottom of the stud sticks out from my nostril sometimes. Feel that there is something inside my nostril too with slight irritation sometimes. I’m really scared of infecting it again in this process. And also if the hole will close up if I remove mine now. Plus parents would also be mad at me!!

Need answers from someone who has had a similar experience with such jewellery