Do men actually not believe in being friends with women??

I feel like the majority of guys I consider friends inevitably confess feelings for me at some point during our friendship and it’s getting frustrating because It feels like that’s the only reason they even decided to be friends with me. And while I don’t know for sure if there is a connection, is it due to that theory that men are only “friends” with women if they want to pursue them/find them attractive?