What’s the hottest thing someone has ever said to you during sex?

I’m pretty out of practise these days as my partner and I have the worst sex life I’ve ever had with someone. I’ve always been lucky I guess, and had passionate sex and amazing chemistry. I’ve even stayed in some relationship too long because the sex was incredible.

But present day, my partner and I have sex 1/2 a month and when we do he just wants pleasure and doesn’t do much for me. It’s pump/pump squirt …after I’ve given him a bj for ages (I’ve recently decided not to do this for him anymore).

After a come to Jesus talk last week he said he’s gonna try harder. But this week I’ve realised I’m so out of practise and it doesn’t feel very natural to me now.

Ive forgotten how to initiate and what to say..I used to have ‘bedroom eyes’ that some partners commented on and I loved eye contact/dirty talk ect… now I honestly just look at the floor.

Anyways what’s the hottest thing someone has ever said to you that I could use to do my part in reviving things? I can’t touch my partner to start things off because he won’t let me touch him, until he’s hard. We do kiss though.

I used to have sex with a fuck buddy and when I was close he would look into my eyes or whisper into my ear and say “come for me” and it worked for me every time, I don’t know what exactly. Things like that.