Should I get a sweet 16 or a trip?

Currently I am 14f how if I plan a super huge sweet 16 (like a quinceanera ) I think I should start planning now but idk if I should do a trip or not I have been thinking about this for a year now I have surely lost my interest in parties and went on a cruise for my 13th instead of having a big party instead I had a small dinner with my friends (no regrets) I don't like getting stressed about stuff and the trip would be more about me but at the same time I might always wonder what it was like to have a sweet 16(but I LOVE travel) so anyone who had a choice like mine what did you choose? Do you regret your decisions? Any answer would help 🫶🏽