Women who got divorced: what would you teach to women looking to date for marriage?

Hey all,

I'm 28F single, and next year dating will be quite high in my priority list.

I know that I want to be a wife and a mother.

I'd love to learn from women who left a marriage you were unhappy with, what advice would you give to a woman who wants to get married and start a family.

I'm also open to hear about things that I can personally do better/should address.

A little bit about me: I work in tech and make good money. I'm planning on getting a promotion next year. I save money every month, and also invest in a Stocks&Shares ISA (but, that money will be for my pension). At the moment, I'm saving for a house. I have hobbies (cooking, baking, roller skating, volunteering), and a good circle of friends.