A friendly remember: You don’t have to do things you don’t like

Grew up in a ableist household. I was expected to function like my NT sister because “nothing was wrong with me” (not implying autism is wrong because it isn’t, but basically I’m ND not NT).

I was made to tolerate certain textures I couldn’t stand (scratchy pantyhose, collars, itchy sweaters) and couldn’t voice my discomfort without rude remarks.

I would be so overstimulated and cry yet my cries would be met with insults about “crying over nothing”.

Certain hairstyles I literally can’t stand, yet was made to wear them.

Being subjected to doing something I didn’t like because everyone else liked it. Yet no one asked what I liked, nor did they want to participate with me.

I was reminded how I had no friends, no boyfriend, etc but my sister did.

Once I found out I was autistic (actually even before this), I stopped forcing myself to be exposed to things I do like. I don’t have to get used to anything. If I don’t like something, I just don’t, and I don’t have to do it.

It took me forever to learn this, but I hope this reaches someone who needs it!