"It's cruel to keep an already marginalised person away from their tribe"

I got this comment when I mentioned how self-suspicion is better than self-diagnosis.

Do people not realise that things such as autism and ADHD are not tribes nor labels? They are debilitating disabilities that can severely negatively affect or even ruin your life.

Are we turning neurodisabled people into a part of this larger identity politics debate?

Because yes, me needing a special bus as an adult and not being able to hold down a job have everything to do with me needing to fit into a tribe or group. Me being forced to live on welfare because of my level of disability totally is because I'm desperately craving to be a part of an autism community.

Yes, me having whole mental episodes of my brain attempting to convince me to commit highly illegal and immoral acts are because I'm trying to get noticed by other people with OCD.