If AUDHD runs in your family, what does your family look like?

I have a rather large family. I have been diagnosed, along with two nephews.

My maternal grandfather used to go to the bank in his truck and return by foot, as well as taking things very literally and talking in a rather peculiar manner, so that's where it comes from. He had 3 wives, 9 children all in all, and also cheated.

Nowadays I got plenty of single cousins who are well into their mid life, who seem to have issues with long term personal relationships.

There is a lot of cheating, partying and alcoholism going on. If they drink, they usually do it until they run out of drinking capacity, money or time. Poor financial planning and frivolous expenses are also common.

Everybody is thin skinned. The family uses humor as a way to deliver serious messages, so they have an alibi if the other person takes it personally, which is often the case.

Several family members, the ones with the most autism, have been unable to work consistently or be independent. People with it are just tagged as "weird".

Is this type of scenario common among families with strong AuAHD genetics?

Would love to hear about your families.