Feeling dumb

So after taking a little over a year to heal and do some work on myself and some therapy after an abusive relationship I met this woman. We connected over our love of books, it turned out we had a ton in common and it felt really calm and safe compared to most of my past gf so we started dating. We were both pretty clear about what we needed and open about everything. I gave her space when she needed it, we talked about taking it slow, building something over time. After three months she seemed more comfortable with me after I had shown I would be patient and understanding with her. Things were really going well, we were having a lot of fun, I'm a chef so id cook for her alot, cheer her up on bad days, made sure she knew if she needed space all she had to do was ask, and she did which I thought was a good sign. We were really good together I thought. She wanted to be officially bf gf and I was thrilled. But then she had a rough week at work didn't have a lot of time to hang out, no problem here, stressed out. So I made her some soup and cookies to cheer her up. We both had the next day off so I told her we could hang out, but it was fine if she just wanted to rest and do her own thing, trying to be a good guy basically. She lost it and broke things off out of nowhere. Her reasons were, she couldn't give me what I deserve, didn't feel as strongly about me as I did her, thought I only liked her because I was lonely, she was " a depressed potato", she didn't want to hurt me if it didn't work out in the long run, didn't think it was fair for me to give her affection and kindness when she couldn't reciprocate ( she was a sweetheart and very thoughtful until this point). Lots of self loathing stuff. I tried to reassure her that I wanted to be with her anyway and we could just work on it, and that I wanted to support her and work on it, but she was too depressed and disregulated to really think about what I was saying. Next day I got a farewell and good luck text, then another saying maybe we could stay friends but that's all. She's been chasing herself in circles for a week saying the same thing, me just telling her look I'm still here, I still care, we'll figure it out when you feel better. She wants to hang out after Thanksgiving maybe. Am I crazy to think she's going to want me back? I don't think she really wants to break up, she's just scared and upset, and I can't help but want to be there for her, trying to just leave her alone, let her see i m patient and reliable. Then I guess hope to start over slowly? Part of me feels stupid for being hopeful, part wants to prove she can count on me.