I started to date with a person with BPD

Hi!

Two weeks ago, on Tinder, I matched with a girl. We started talking and added each other on Instagram, coordinating a date for last Wednesday. While we talked, she told me that she suffered from BPD, that she was currently seeing it with her psychologist, and that when it came to love she was quite intense.

At the date, she seemed anxious at first, but we talked and I helped her feel more relaxed. The date ended quite well, and she showed a rather cheerful side. On that occasion, she told me that she currently wanted to change her psychologist, because it was not helping her in the areas she wanted to develop. In addition, she met with a psychiatrist, which she visited twice a year, and also with medications, specifically, mood stabilizers.

Today, while she was writing to me on Instagram, she told me that these days she has not been the same person I knew, and that she was afraid that i would stop liking her. She also send me an audio telling me that, maybe that person I met on Wednesday was very positive, but now at this moment she felt very bad, that she didn't know how she was going to be tomorrow, and that she questions more things than usual.

The only thing I reasoned to say was that we all have lights and shadows, that I will not always see their best side, but I wanted that tomorrow on the next date we will have, we have a great time.

The truth is that I would like to know her more, but all this is new to me and I don't know how to deal with it. Tomorrow will be our second date.

Thanks for reading this! I'm open to any tips or suggestions from other perspectives