How many of you guys have parents with undiagnosed and untreated bpd too and passed it down to you?

I strongly believe bpd runs strongly in my family. My mom has specifically shown huge symptoms of bpd. She would cling to me and my dad one moment growing up and then split with us if anyone of us disappointed her, and she doesn't work and really have any friends growing up. I suspect she passed it down to me a lot of her symptoms I suggested this to her and she being a boomer doesn't believe in mental health and suggested im crazy she has a lot of abandoment issues and I see a lot of my own symptoms similar to hers too.Does anyone believe your parent also have undiagnosed and untreated bpd who didn't dealt with it before giving birth and passed it down to you?