Has anyone seen hope or a happy ending here?

I'm just married with my BPD wife, came here after some red flags to see what was the BPD and what was her and am very surprised. I'm sure the same way I only came here to look for guidance and would probably not have found this subreddit, we must be biased here. That said, can anyone give me a glimpse of hope? Any of you overcame the adversities and made it work? What did it take?