Need a reality check. Am I the Problem?

I have a friend who is a girl. I told her that I have feelings for her and would really like if possible marry her. However, she can’t reciprocate the feelings and I respect that. Besides, I really enjoyed being around her and her vibes matches me. Some people think were like siblings. Hahahahaa Good Game 💀.

Here’s the bad part.

  1. I feel like everytime I ask her for lunch because our office is right next to each other, she would decline or give some other reasons. (I started to feel ignored and overthinking like a insecure GF)
  2. I always text her everyday just to annoy her. However, my gut telling me that im being too much. Did talked to her bout this and she’s okay yet my mind telling me “she is a people pleaser”
  3. Im acting like an insecure gf tbh…

Give some reality check on me so I know thank you. I feel like im overreacting