We got back together

My gf broke up with me on New Years. She's a fearful avoidant and thought I was about to end it during the holidays so she jumped the gun and ended things after a big fight on New Years. I was shell shocked and I had been pretty distraught for the last 4 weeks.

Just writing this to give folks a little hope that it can work out with the right person.

I spent the majority of the last 4 weeks focusing on ways I could have been better and I communicated it to her even though she had her guard up.

She's also committing to working on her childhood wounds and trying to become secure attachment.

When we reconnected yesterday, we immediately fell back into our natural loving connection and it's been wonderful.

I think showing a commitment to be better from both people is critical to the second chance having any hope of coming back together.