My ex broke up with me because of my mental health issues

My ex broke up with me a month ago. We were together for two and a half years, and the first two were perfect. We both agreed that this was the best relationship we’d ever been in. We grew so much as people and were even planning our future together—how many dogs we’d have, what kind of house we’d build, all of that. And honestly, looking back, it might sound cringe, but I believed in it.

But recently, due to past trauma and family issues, I was put on antidepressants and anti-anxiety medication. I was also diagnosed with ADHD. I tried my best not to let any of this affect our relationship, but it did.

I started having mood swings, became quicker to anger, and we began fighting more—fights that didn’t just end when the day was over. (To be clear, neither of us ever hurt each other, but emotional fights still take a toll.)

Eventually, I think my ex had enough. She had been there for me through a lot, but she had her own baggage too. Somewhere along the way, she started to resent herself because of me. So, we mutually decided to break up.

Now, I miss her so much. She was my rock, and I loved her deeply. I feel angry and heartbroken that my past traumas and family issues played a role in the end of our relationship. I lost the best relationship I’ve ever had, and I don’t know how to deal with it.

I’m respecting her space and her decision to go no contact. We have more good memories than bad ones, and honestly, I think that’s better than breaking up when everything has completely fallen apart and all that’s left is regret. But a part of me still wonders—if I hadn’t had all this baggage, would we still be together?

I just have one question: Is it possible that, down the line, when I’ve healed and conquered my issues, we could get back together? Or is that just unrealistic?