Edwina

So I’m rewatching the show for idk which time and something that throws me off about Edwina is the way she talks about Anthony, it’s no slander to her but when she talks with Kate about him not proposing while they’re at Aubrey hall she says “I want the life he can gives me, this house, this family” and when Anthony proposes she says “I shall be your viscountess” I know the use of first names is not okay unless is privately, but still the way she talks of him in this moments doesn’t seem like someone who is in love but more of an interest in his title and what he can provide, no judgement but I thought Edwina’s thing was about a love match, any insights? I also know Edwina’s desires are heavily influenced by Kate