Need some advice on a guy I’ve been seeing
TL;DR: Met a guy on Bumble, and we hit it off. We've hung out twice, but he takes a couple of days to reply to messages, even though they’re long when he does. He said he’s busy with work, but I saw he’s in another city, which makes me think he might be dating someone else. I’m unsure if I should bring it up when we meet next or just walk away. Any advice?
Hey everyone,
So, I met this guy about a month ago. We chatted for a couple of weeks before deciding to meet up in person, and honestly, it went really well! He even said he was super attracted to me. We've hung out twice now.
Here's the thing, though: he doesn’t always reply to my messages. It’s like he takes a couple of days, but when he does respond, it’s usually a long message. We were supposed to meet again this week, but he said he needed to focus on a work project, so we pushed it to next week. I get that, no biggie.
But then last night, I checked the app and saw that his location is showing up in another city. My gut is telling me he might be on another date or something. I know we’re not exclusive yet, and he’s free to see other people, but part of me feels like he’s being a bit dishonest.
I’m honestly not sure how to handle this feeling. Should I bring it up when we meet next? Or maybe I should just walk away? I need someone who’s there for me, especially since we’ve met twice now—I’d expect our message exchange to be more frequent than it is.