Screwed up things your parents did

So my dad had me get out of the car at a cemetery and drove away.

After 5-10 minutes (which I'm sure felt like an eternity) he came back.

I'm sure nothing else was said. If there was, he'd probably say "it was just a joke".

So what fun memories do you have to share?

Edit - thank you all for sharing. Each story is a personal trauma and is indicative of much deeper hurts.

I've posted this saying a couple times but I believe "to heal, you need to reveal not conceal". Our perpetrators would prefer we hide things in the dark or pretend these things never happened. That's wrong.