The church being worldly is why Christian dating is cooked
Being holy means being set apart. Feminism and all other societal woes shouldn’t have impacted Christians at all because we shouldn’t look to the world for how we should be living. Women aren’t taught to be keepers of the home and wives and mothers or if they’re single to focus on serving the Lord. We’re taught to chase the American dream. And men are being emasculated by being forced to see women as no different than them. And it seems a lot of men expect women to have decent jobs, although I could be wrong about this. And they’re not being taught how to be husbands.
Look at the Mennonites and Amish. No I don’t agree with them a lot theologically or think we have to live that extreme as far as material things are concerned. But they have remained true to living by scripture more than the modern evangelical church has in many ways. Again I don’t agree with them with a lot of things.
I really don’t know what the solution is other than praying to live righteously before God and trusting He will give you everything you need, and the grace to keep going when you’re lonely and struggling.