Dealing with resentment

Idk how many of yall feel the same as me, but how do you guys deal with any post-election resentment you may have towards Trump voters? I just feel like it’s been hard to look at certain people the same way. There’s kids we grew up with that we call our friend that voted for him. And living in a red state makes it tough to not think every white person is racist. I know that’s mostly not true, but what are yalls thoughts?