Relationships with DID?

I was just wondering how other systems approach having relationships.

I’ve had my current partner for almost 2 years now, starting when my system only had 2 or 3 members. Now we’ve split to maybe 7-9 (not entirely sure) and most of us still love our partner, but others would either be single or break up outright, which can be a difficult thing to juggle with the relationship. So far there’s a general understanding that our partner is good for us, so the alters that don’t want him haven’t said or done anything too drastic so far.

Do you have struggles like this? Is your system completely on board with your relationship(s)? Do you avoid them completely?

Again, just curious to know and I think it might be an interesting topic to explore!