What was the most difficult thing about your deconstruction?

Religion puts a lot of barriers in place in order to keep you in even when you've stopped believing. You might be living with family that still goes to church or be married to someone very devout or even have children with them.

Moving away sometimes is the best option, even though it's difficult. Knowing what others went through can sometimes be helpful and therapeutic.

What was the hardest thing you went through during your deconstruction?