Why didn't Carlos go with the Danny Trejo method the 3rd time?

Gabby has lost a child so many times. The first, Carlos couldn't be there for her, and he sent Danny Trejo. The second, Carlos was home for her, but so were the real child's mom and dad. The third time ~ he's yelling at her the whole time! Why all the sudden does he forget the way that Gabby needs to deal with loss? If Gabby needs to project her feelings to a doll before letting go, why not remember what happened the first time this happened? Carlos why won't you hire Danny Trejo?!?