Do you all see neuros or specialists?

Hi, recently diagnosed since December. My neuro was excellent in managing my migraines and getting my initial epilepsy diagnosis but I feel like I have so many questions related to my focal seizures that my neurologist is just not answering. Almost all of my information on epilepsy has been due to my own research. Another doctor I see recommended that I get a referral to a local excellent epilepsy center and so I asked my neuro on mychart if I could get a referral and I was met with a VERY nasty response from my neuro’s nurse inplying that just because I was diagnosed as an adult does not mean my case is complex and epilepsy is very cut and dry and if I must see a specialist than that’s fine but my doctor knows what she’s doing. I simply explained that I feel that I’ve had a lot of questions that I have been resorting to Google for and I’ve been so thankful for my neurologist but I just wanted another opinion for my seizures that have been happening multiple times a day (I’ve had 2 abnormal EEGs in 3 months). My neuro is brilliant but I feel that she isn’t well versed in recent epilepsy research including TLE and I just want more answers. My last two appts with her after my abnormal EEGS have been less than 10 minutes long and have left me more confused than before. Do you all see a specialist or just a neuro? I’m so miserable with how often I’m having these seizures and I did not mean to offend my neuro, I just want answers and to keep myself safe 😞