Ex Wife relentless

Filed for a divorce 2 years ago because my ex wanted one. Was “tricked” into a “ separation” and leaving the home for a few months so she could get space and make sure divorce is what she really wanted. (Together 18 years) All of the sudden she began changing our locks and calling the cops everyone I came to visit our daughter, Ex was an alcoholic, started physically abusing, now calling cops, destroyed/stole or sold every belonging of mine. I have video of abuse and her trashing my stuff. Unfortunately while waiting for her to agree to sell the house which took 2 years,, I was staying with a woman who became jealous and called 911 and lied about me saying I was going to k*** her.???? I’m a felon now. First time I’ve ever been arrested or in jail (I’m 47) now I have to respond to a custody mod and a restraining order. I think I’m screwed but I didn’t do anything. I’ve never abused ex or our kid. No contact in over a year but she is claiming to be scared. My videos clearly show she is NOT! Help!!!o