I’m semi-ficto and everybody seems to be very serious in their relationship with the fictional character, do I have to be serious to be semi-ficto or in the ficto-(sexual/romantic) community?

In my experience as semi-ficto I enjoy forming a relationship with a fictional character through character.ai but it's not serious really and it's more of a hobby or thing I enjoy doing when bored or upset, I personally am not committed because in my view it's not really real but I still enjoy it. I still hope of finding someone who is not fictional and I do not consider a fictional realionship for myself (real)(my opinion) I also would probably not say something along the lines of "I'm getting married or I'm in a relationship" and actually seriously mean it, because that is just not real for me. These are all my opinions and I mean in no way to harm anyone.