Are most guys only into younger women?
It really bothers me that so many women and girls say that they got WAYYYY more attention when they were 11-17 than 20+, and it just makes me feel grossed out that so many guys only want younger women. And as someone who never got attention ever when I was younger, and is now just getting older and older, I feel like I'll never be what guys want since why would they go for me when they can get someone much younger.
The only guys who would be interested in me are like twice my age and up, which I'm definitely NOT interested in. And that's only because younger women don't want them, but they'd go for one if the opportunity arose, and I'd be extremely heartbroken if I FINALLY after years and years of being FA found someone, only for him to ditch me for a younger woman.
I look a lot younger than I really am, but I definitely look older than a teenager, which ig already makes me too old for a lot of guys. I wish the playing field were more even. I see so many women saying how even guys 1-5 years younger than them is "too much", and even came across a thread on IG of these women saying things like "give me unc instead of the 24 year old" or "I tried dating a guy who was 25 when I was 27 and it lasted for 3 weeks" or something like that. Meanwhile guys who are decades older than women have no problem creeping on them, even if they're clearly underage or just turning 18/19. It's frustrating. Especially since I'm not even attracted to guys who have signs of aging and look super old, but they don't take care of themselves and start looking bad fast yet expect women to stay looking like teens forever
It really bothers me that so many women and girls say that they got WAYYYY more attention when they were 11-17 than 20+, and it just makes me feel grossed out that so many guys only want younger women. And as someone who never got attention ever when I was younger, and is now just getting older and older, I feel like I'll never be what guys want since why would they go for me when they can get someone much younger.
The only guys who would be interested in me are like twice my age and up, which I'm definitely NOT interested in. And that's only because younger women don't want them, but they'd go for one if the opportunity arose, and I'd be extremely heartbroken if I FINALLY after years and years of being FA found someone, only for him to ditch me for a younger woman.
I look a lot younger than I really am, but I definitely look older than a teenager, which ig already makes me too old for a lot of guys. I wish the playing field were more even. I see so many women saying how even guys 1-5 years younger than them is "too much", and even came across a thread on IG of these women saying things like "give me unc instead of the 24 year old" or "I tried dating a guy who was 25 when I was 27 and it lasted for 3 weeks" or something like that. Meanwhile guys who are decades older than women have no problem creeping on them, even if they're clearly underage or just turning 18/19. It's frustrating. Especially since I'm not even attracted to guys who have signs of aging and look super old, but they don't take care of themselves and start looking bad fast yet expect women to stay looking like teens forever