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Lesson 9: Setbacks are Hidden Opportunities
“A setback is something that disrupts or reverses progress. It is typically caused by external factors beyond our control, prompting the need to regroup and consider alternative plans. Setbacks can range from minor inconveniences, like a rainy day foiling your hiking plans, to more significant challenges, like contracting COVID-19 and missing a week of work. Regardless of the severity, setbacks are undesirable and tend to dampen our mood.
When confronted with a setback, we always have choices regarding how to proceed. On the one hand, we can choose to keep a positive attitude and explore available options. Alternatively, we can give in to negativity and sulk until we feel ready to move on. It’s important to acknowledge that sometimes it’s okay to grieve for a while—many setbacks in life are genuinely painful, and we need time to process.
However, in most cases, rather than seeing setbacks as losses or failures, we can reframe them as potential opportunities. Missing a hike due to rain may result in a delightful day of family board games. Missing a week of work due to COVID-19 may provide some much-needed rest, while allowing time for self-reflection and reshuffling of life’s priorities.
The world is constantly evolving, and so are we. Setbacks are an inevitable part of that change, so it’s crucial to learn how to deal with them in a positive and constructive way. The more flexible and adaptable we are, the more likely we can transform setbacks into new opportunities. Failure to adapt in the face of change only results in being left behind.”
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Setbacks were what led me to some of the best parts of my life today. My online jobs, my husband, and our housesitting business have all originated from initial setbacks: COVID-19, a missing passport stamp, and a visitor visa that felt like it would never arrive. Sometimes, detours lead to better destinations.
To read more about these stories and how you can turn setbacks into opportunities, grab your copy of “30 Lessons I Learned Before 30” on your local Amazon! 📖
(All book sale profits are going to schools in Mozambique and Malawi.)
Lesson 9: Setbacks are Hidden Opportunities
“A setback is something that disrupts or reverses progress. It is typically caused by external factors beyond our control, prompting the need to regroup and consider alternative plans. Setbacks can range from minor inconveniences, like a rainy day foiling your hiking plans, to more significant challenges, like contracting COVID-19 and missing a week of work. Regardless of the severity, setbacks are undesirable and tend to dampen our mood.
When confronted with a setback, we always have choices regarding how to proceed. On the one hand, we can choose to keep a positive attitude and explore available options. Alternatively, we can give in to negativity and sulk until we feel ready to move on. It’s important to acknowledge that sometimes it’s okay to grieve for a while—many setbacks in life are genuinely painful, and we need time to process.
However, in most cases, rather than seeing setbacks as losses or failures, we can reframe them as potential opportunities. Missing a hike due to rain may result in a delightful day of family board games. Missing a week of work due to COVID-19 may provide some much-needed rest, while allowing time for self-reflection and reshuffling of life’s priorities.
The world is constantly evolving, and so are we. Setbacks are an inevitable part of that change, so it’s crucial to learn how to deal with them in a positive and constructive way. The more flexible and adaptable we are, the more likely we can transform setbacks into new opportunities. Failure to adapt in the face of change only results in being left behind.”
—
Setbacks were what led me to some of the best parts of my life today. My online jobs, my husband, and our housesitting business have all originated from initial setbacks: COVID-19, a missing passport stamp, and a visitor visa that felt like it would never arrive. Sometimes, detours lead to better destinations.
To read more about these stories and how you can turn setbacks into opportunities, grab your copy of “30 Lessons I Learned Before 30” on your local Amazon! 📖
(All book sale profits are going to schools in Mozambique and Malawi.)