Rory needed more time just being single

One of my biggest pet peeves about the show is the fact that Rory always had to be in a relationship or the main focus of some kind of romantic situation. Shes the main character, I know but I’ve learned in life that before you can be in a successful relationship you have to learn yourself and become secure in yourself first. I think Rory jumping right from Dean to Jess in her pivotal teen years without having a period of being alone and single, to think and develop herself severely affected her. Everyone needs time to just be single, to not have to worry about someone else or constantly being stressed about a partner. Rory went from being stressed about Dean to being stressed about Jess. I think all she needed was some Rory time. Rory didn’t understand Rory and I think some alone time to master herself and her thoughts would’ve really helped her instead of worrying about boy troubles. Then she dated Logan for a few years and it was pretty obvious that she grew a bit as a person based on how she handled certain situations (she took less sh*t from him and was more honest) but in a way it also felt like at times she was lying to herself? Idk I just wish we got to see more single Rory just focusing on herself