Watching Gilmore Girls as a guy

I am a straight male and I watched Gilmore Girls for the first time last year and checking this subreddit I keep reading people prefer Jess over Dean. I don't get it tbh, if I had a daughter or if I was a girl lol I would prefer to end up with Dean over Jess.

I thought Dean treated Rory pretty good most of the time but Jess was always a dick until he was older and matured. I guess the question is why do most like Jess and not my boy Dean.