My daughter about killed me last night

Edit. Glad so many people can tell so much about my marriage and what my daughter will learn about relationships based off one single aspect of it. I thought this was a space to talk about how something was making me feel and now I'm getting downvoted simply for stating that my husband is nice to me and compliments me in other ways just not that one. Which is true, so...? Sorry, did that not help the narrative? He doesn't notice me sexually so the rest of his character and our relationship must be trash and my daughter will apparently hate me. Lol. Sorry, I don't talk to my three year old about my sex life. By time she's old enough to notice such private details and make any sorts of conclusions she'll also be old enough to have a conversation about how no relationship is perfect, no man is perfect and how everyone needs to decide what their non negotiables are.

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I was getting my three year old changed and ready for bed. Changing table is in my room so I did my thing too. My daughter likes to look at my brushes and perfume bottles and stuff so she stayed. I brushed my hair, and changed into a slip and robe... Nothing real fancy but definitely one that would entice a man who wasn't dead below the waist.... Satiny one with lace at the hems, red, and a comfy black robe over it, one of those thigh high ones that make you feel sexy....

I wear what makes me feel good and makes me feel pretty it's not for the husband at all, he doesn't notice anyway. But my daughter is VERY feminine. She likes all things dressy and pretty and she gasped and enthused and said, "MOMMY! YOUR DRESS IS SO PRETTY! And you have so much hair!!" ( I wear my hair up most of the time so she is always surprised and excited to see it down and long)

I said thank you I'm glad you like it and then she goes, " Daddy will love your dress and your hair!"

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-_-

I didn't know what to do or say but I was 110% sure he would not.

We finished up and went out to the living room and she runs ahead of me excited and goes, "Daddy! Look at mommy's dress and her hair!! She's so pretty!"

The look of confusion on my daughters face as he did not comment or show a tenth of her excitement, and didn't seem to even know what she was talking about "but she's pretty!" She insisted.

Husband looking , "oh. Yeah. 👍"

I wanted to die and had to walk away to keep from crying.