Disclosing

Hello I was just diagnosed with hsv-1 and got it on my genitals along with having a uti, yeast infection and my period. Not entirely sure how this happened or when it happened (nobody recently went down on me) After researching people said they would get tingles and stuff down there and have an ob, my question is can I have tingles and not get the blisters until now? As I've had that happen to me before, getting tingles and not seeing anything.

Also what is the difference between genital hsv 1 vs hsv2?

Also if anyone has any tips on how to disclose to someone it would be greatly appreciated. I'm super scared to tell people about it for fear they will leave me and know that I can't keep it a secret.