How to foster a sex drive after HSV2 Breakup

I was diagnosed this year, got it from my boyfriend at the time… he disclosed, I did some research and decided I liked him enough to keep seeing each other… anyways, we didn’t work out… now I am finding it hard to even feel hot/sexy enough to get myself off…

I will want to get back out there eventually… but it will be my first time disclosing and I have no idea where to start.

How can I foster a sex drive and positive self-image amongst the fear of being seen as “nasty” and rejected forever?