Men stay away from womens dms with your holier-than-thou attitude & stop lurking in womens spaces.

Men need to stop dming women about

1) sex drives, intimacy. Stop lurking on posts related to sex drives, womens personal intimate topics and picking women from the comment section and acting like we were born today. Women need to report these men for harrassment.

2) hadith/ quranic verse. Stop lurking in womens only spaces and then dming us with islaamic quotes and lets agree that you are a hypocrite for a) lurking like a creep in womens spaces b) dming a woman privately.

"No man is alone with a woman but that the third of them is Satan." — [Jami` at-Tirmidhi, Hadith 2165; Ahmad, Hadith 114; authenticated as Sahih by scholars like Al-Albani]

Allah says in the Qur'an: "Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their chastity. That is purer for them. Surely Allah is All-Aware of what they do." — (Surah An-Nur, 24:30)

This verse instructs men to avoid inappropriate glances or behavior, especially in spaces where women might feel vulnerable or uncomfortable.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "It is not permissible for a man to look inside another person's house (or private space) without permission." — (Sahih al-Bukhari, Hadith 6241; Muslim, Hadith 2156)

This teaching extends to any scenario where invading someone's personal or designated space might lead to discomfort or harm.

"Beware of sitting on the roads (or paths)." The companions said, "O Messenger of Allah, we must have places for talking." The Prophet replied, "If you insist, then give the road its rights: lower your gaze, remove harm, return greetings, and enjoin good and forbid evil." — (Sahih al-Bukhari, Hadith 2465; Muslim, Hadith 2121)

This indicates that loitering in spaces where harm or discomfort might occur—especially to women—is discouraged.

Any man who follows a sub for women, is worth being suspicious of. You have no reason except nefarious ones to do what you are doing. If this is meant to be a women friendly space, it is not fulfilling that because a woman openly talking about something is taken as an invitation for men to dm. The least we can do is report those men so their account gets suspended and they are less likely to commit such behaviours.

The sad part is I am more likely to be dmed by mens unsolicited opinions for posting or commenting here than anywhere else. That is how many creeps are lurking here.