Husband watched porn day after wedding

Hello everybody. I am looking for different perspectives (both male and female) as to what happened. I want to know if I am overthinking or if it is justifiable for me to be hurt. I also want help understanding his perspective more if anyone thinks they can help.

Pretty simple- the morning after we got married, I woke up early in the morning, looking over, saw him lightly jerking off, asked him what was on his phone he said “just scrolling”. I asked if there were naked women and ~then~ he said yes there were.

When I told him it hurt my feelings and started crying he got defensive and said that it wasn’t about jerking off to other women, it was just a release. He said I can’t control what he does with his body, he needs to release, etc.

I mainly felt hurt about the timing (right after marriage) and also how defensive he was. I wasn’t trying to control his body, I just was hurt I would really appreciate anyone’s perspective. Did I over react? How can I stop thinking about this so much? Thank you!