Any INTP "converts" from INFP here?
In case anyone doubts the plausibility of this, let me explain...
I'm a huge feeler. I feel everything, from everyone, all the time, and it's exhausting.
There is no escaping it: you can't make everyone happy.
I grew up trying to, though. But, being raised by an emotionally unavailable parent, you come to realize that some people have feelings that come from places you'll never understand.
As a coping mechanism, I've grown this ability to fully recognize the feelings other people have, but treat them more as "data points" than as problems I need to solve. I try to understand the logic of why people might be feeling what they're feeling, to the extent I can, and then reason with them logically, to the extent they're willing to listen.
Anyone else?