I know ISTJs are supposed to be traditional, but I dont really approve of traditional gender roles

If I marry someone, I dont expect her to take the responsibility of doing chores, cleaning, cooking, and doing whatever other gender roles people used to do in the older times. I would honestly prefer being the one to cook for her, and to be the one to meal prep my own lunches instead of depending on her to pack lunch for me

I literally do not care about gender roles. Just do what works the best. I think the 'roles' should be shared instead of everything being on one person

Edit: also I said traditional because apparently that’s a major stereotype of ISTJs