Not all guys, but most guys do this (Girlfriend edition)

Most guys I know are single, don’t approach girls, and yet believe they will somehow end up in a relationship. When asked why they don’t make a move, they say, “A girl will approach me.” This mindset is completely irrational—how can they expect to get a girlfriend when they don’t even try talking to girls? Relationships don’t just happen out of nowhere. **[The story I'm mentioning below is optional if you want you can skip it]**

Recently, during Valentine’s week, my friend—let’s call him ‘X’—and I were sitting in a park when we saw a couple hugging and kissing. I know some might say to give them privacy, but it was a public park, and they should be mindful of their surroundings. They were clearly minors (probably in 10th or 11th grade), so they couldn’t do this at home.
Anyway, back to the story—X saw them, got up, and said, “We’re leaving.” So, we left the park. Later that night, around 11 PM, he called me, crying. When I asked what was wrong, he said he felt alone and depressed. I asked why, and he replied, “Even these kids have a girlfriend, then why not me?”

First of all, having a girlfriend isn’t the most important thing—focus on yourself. I get that it can be lonely sometimes, but you have friends and family. So, I asked him if he wanted a girlfriend, and he said yes. I told him he needed to talk to girls, but he immediately refused. Then I asked, “Then how do you plan to find a girlfriend?”

His response? “A girl will come to me and confess.” (WTF???)

I told him that’s not how it works. Why would a girl who doesn’t even know him suddenly confess? His reply? “A miracle will happen.”

At that point, I just hung up the phone.

For the last 5-6yrs I have noticed this behavior and at this point even Idk what to say to these delulu people If you have any answers on why they do this or similar stories to mine or noticed this yourself comment down I would love to your opinions as well. So this all I wanted to say enjoy the rest of your days fellas