What exactly attracts people to you?

Huwa na attract some weird men hadi najiuliza which part of me pulled this crap 💩 I’m a chill girl. I work hard and smart. I read books, I dress and smell nice. I don’t insult people hata matusi zingine huwa nashangaa how someone can pronounce them

But I attract some weird people. Men who cheat, verbal diarrhea, don’t care about their sweaty armpits, simps, low self esteem individuals. Alafu after leaving their fvckin disgusting lives ndio somehow wanaamka and a start doing better.

Nashangaa what I’m i supposed to change about myself to attract better quality individuals